Mana, Mana! Doo Doo Doo Doo Doo! Part 2

[in_it]

I agree. Saying it out loud makes it even more real. You know you are done & feel solid about that. I wouldn't want to have to deal with my H being mean either, that certainly won't help your frame of mind or emotional state.

I suggest waiting to see what IC advises. I've read in your posts that you both use the same C. They may be able to help you since C knows both you & H.