Originally Posted By: findingself

...but when you raise your voice during a discussion you are raising it because you are trying to be right, you are fighting to be right!! I know I do this and did it a lot!! This is one of the biggest things I am working on!


I love this - great persepctive and insight!!! Thanks for sharing.

Shisss, best place to be in a really tough situation. You are getting great advice from some of the vets here. Took me a long time to realize that but it really helped when I did.

Guess I am a slow learner - LOL.

Thoughts and prayers are with you.


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