Recently Separated and Need Help

[azguy]

"I couldn't make even the small decision of what to make for supper. "

So, if this is still going on, show him that you are able to be decisive. Look for small, specific actions you could do differently. This will likely help your sense of confidence as well.

"So eventually, I just stopped asking. I guess I figured if he wanted something bad enough, he would say something. Guess I was wrong."

That's a more difficult one. If you start asking for his opinion now, after he's left he will probably interpret it as pursuing. On the other hand, if you're already talking with him about something, maybe look for opportunities to casually ask for his thoughts on the topic. If he does share something, make sure to tell him that you appreciate him telling you.

Good luck!