Reading your thread is giving me flashbacks.......Why is she going out so much?

Take it from me - DO NOT SNOOP! Do not go thru computer history, texts etc. You will want to- REFRAIN

Focus on you and your son. Focusing on you and your son will help moderate the up and down ride with your wife.

Keep journaling- I cant believe how therapeutic it has been for me. I am now averaging 2.5 pages a night and, thankfully, forgot alot of what I wrote earlier on.

This is still early on for both of us- I may have an advantage as I know the holy mess I need to face/confront. I PRAY you dont have a surprise ahead of you.

Your original goals are key- keep up the great work! Your son will need you more then ever

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13