So after talking to more friends and family here is what I have decided.. Feel free to chime in on what you all think..

1) It is not my job to pursue R in our M.

2) It is not my job to hold onto the D papers.

3) I need to make sure I tell her that I do not agree that I didn't change until she left.

4) I need to continue to live my life the way I am now and if she continues to show interest we need to go to my current IC together.

Thoughts?

Me - 30
W - 28
M 4
t 6
ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011
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