Once H & I do speak I think I may have to be more stern with the texting. He doesn't talk on the phone with her in the presence of me or our daughters, but he does text a little. I've been pretty good at blocking this out.
I've allowed a lot up to this point (I know it's allowing him to cake eat) because I can/could see that this decision has been hard for him. He has struggled if he could actually pick up & leave to another state & leave not only our Ds but me behind.
Our girls are his life & the thought of being at least 8 hours away has made it hard for him to go. He has told me (before pg news) that he can see us together, he's trying to figure out what it is he really wants, he has questions about OW & it working out, he has the same questions in regards to us. Lots of mixed emotions involved. When I ask him to elaborate he won't, so I just give him the space & keep moving forward.
Waiting-I'll think about posting my points. I don't know if I'm ready for that just yet.
M 34 H 35 D 7 D 6 M 10 T 14 Pregnant w/ boy/girl twins-due 12/2013 BD 12/15/12
