My goals at this point are so tiny...
Goal Number 1: Make it through a whole week with no fighting (although as of this Sunday I will have made it).
2: Stop pressuring him about coming over to visit/calling. Let him lead for awhile.
3: Stop freaking out/crying/getting upset where he can see/hear it - act like things are normal.

Those are the little goals.

What do you think?


One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.