I'm not inclined to push him out the door, he's so sick, is that bad of me, am I being a doormat or companionate?
you're a kind and loving person (with a long long memory) that's all. for better or worse.
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H said he has done too much, he passed the point of asking for forgiveness because he has been so wrong. He will not ask or seek forgiveness from me, the kids or even God
wouldja think by saying that he WAS asking??? sort of. just how it seems. i'd think you could always just offer the information (if it were true) that both would very probably be willing to forgive.
interesting turn of events. is he less mad, spewing & laying disabled by his depression? any behavior improvement that might be signaling something here? just curious.
i'm thinking if he's mentioning the forgive word. the family word - so on- it's stuff that means something to him and he's "fishing". i'm not saying dive in and beg him to stay. im' just curious how you're viewing it all- how you want to play it or what you want to convey back. silence is always best if you're not sure what you want to say, convey or to happen.
good luck - will keep watching to see how it goes. always something new isn't it? are you exhausted or what.
