Recently Separated and Need Help

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I guess we've both been very indecisive. We lost our first son to a lung malformation at 20 weeks gestation. We had to make the decision to either try surgery or to terminate the pregnancy. After making that huge decision, I really changed. I used to be very straight forward and told everyone what I wanted. After losing our son, I couldn't make even the small decision of what to make for supper.

My H never likes to talk about anything that's bothering him, he normally keeps everything to himself. Any time I want his opinion, I'd have to drag it out of him. So eventually, I just stopped asking. I guess I figured if he wanted something bad enough, he would say something. Guess I was wrong.

I'd like to call in for coaching, but I have to save up first. I have spent most of my money paying up all the bills my H left behind at the house.