your H sounds like a typical child who doesn't like what parent/authority figure A (you) has to say so runs to parent/authority figure B (judge). And OH NO! B is a meanie too! So back to A the child goes, whining "I'll be good!"
So sad the world is against these innocent WASs
I identify with you feeling sad about the "glimpse" you had of your old H. While my H was recently up w/his parents I had a dream. In the dream my old H, who I haven't seen in about 20 years came to me. Sat with me. Put his hand on my cheek and looked me in the eye (this right here is a dead give away that dream me is seeing an H from the last millenium)Old-H says "I know I'm not making things easy for you right now. I'm sorry. I can't tell you this but I do want you to be there when I come out of this storm." Of course this made dream-me cry. So old-H kisses my forehead and hugs me, telling me its going to be ok.
Well I woke up crying. Lol.
But we don't live in a dream do we? (Nightmare is more like it ) I understand why the MLC changes history - it makes this awful new "present" slightly easier to deal with because they don't have to acknowledge what they're losing.
Stay strong W,H. I think you're doing great.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
) I understand why the MLC changes history - it makes this awful new "present" slightly easier to deal with because they don't have to acknowledge what they're losing.
