Text I sent to W in regards to our convo: I understand your stress. I want you to be able to sleep well. Whatever choice you make I support. Let's break this cycle of confusing action and intention. Just know that you are welcome in my home always. I am happy to see you and give more time for you to be with ***** (S). She thanked me for understanding and that evening gave me the choice of having her stay over or not. I was asleep already when the text arrived but it seems like a good baby step for me being able to empathize with her hurt that I caused. I feel like we are getting down to the root of the issue. I feel good about the progress, really trying to listen and understand her needs and where my failure to connect with her has been.
Me-36 W-31 M-7 S-5 BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand
Seeking means: to have a goal Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal
