Originally Posted By: WAW_SC
Are you saying it doesn't really matter what spouse thinks as long you are happy with who you are and the efforts you are making for yourself?

I am saying that you can not control what they think.

They must come to their own decisions and feelings on their own.

DB'ing is not about tricking them to come back.
It is about making real changes within ourselves that only a fool would not love.

So the question is what changes do you need to make?

And how long will it take them to realize that they are fools.

Me-70, D37,S36