Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

So, we really haven't had any relationship talk since she said she didn't want to be married. When we had talked previously I tried to find out if there had been something that I was doing/not doing that was making her feel this way. She said that there wasn't anything wrong with me and it was her, I asked if she has been happy in our marriage and she said that for a little bit after we got married she was having second thoughts and they didn't last long and that she had been happy, but there was just something un-explainable about OM. She had been friends with him before we got married and told me she regretted never having the opportunity to date him. She also said that she was still in love with me. I have a hard time understanding that she was happy in our marriage but still wants to end it. I tried to get her to explain it but she couldn't.

more about whats been happening more recently in the next post.