Hey cadet.
I know changes are for oneself.

Are you saying it doesn't really matter what spouse thinks as long you are happy with who you are and the efforts you are making for yourself?


Me - 37
W - 37
M -5
T - 15

S=5
S=3

Seperated - 12/12
BD - 20/03/13
Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.