Need advice.. Think i know the answer to this one but stilll wanted confirmation.. Does it help to indicate to H that i know the identity of OW , as he takes great pains to cover this up.. He plans to start seperation even if its in the same house.. i dont want to hear from him that the EA happened only after seperation as i understand this is what he will do if i confront him post seperation. I know DB says not to do pre or post but what i get from him that he is out of the tunnel and boarded the OW train His recent text to me says he no longer wants to blame anyone (specifically my parents ) for this break up.. its only the 2 of us who are responsible for it ..he does feel for them and respect them.. this is after i made a special dish for him that reminded him of his late father and he thanked me from the bottom of his heart.. hence the coming out of tunnel comment.. Thanks for reading this..
hoper me-40,H41 M-15 S-6 Looks like MLC,living together
