I know it is bizarre, but thanks Turtle....just trying to find the place where I can really detach. It's coming, I just don't know when. Of course, if he moves in with GF that will pretty much speed it up lol! I have been thinking on this particular boundary quite a bit, actually. This past month is what has made me go forward with drawing up the papers. Not filed, but the terms will be set on paper. They will not be any different then those we have now, just legally binding. While I am glad he is happy, his happiness does not come at the cost of my self respect.
This month has also prompted me to file for my dual citizenship and check out other areas where I may want to be. Which I think I posted lol already.
So, I may be going about things bass ackwards, but foe me, I am solid.
