Just putting it out there, when in a WAS situation and you have begun the process of detachment, GAL, being friendly and changing yourself for the better, can this make the WAS feel more resentment towards you.

My theory is that if you start showing WAS that you are moving on with your life, being positive etc the WAS could potentially be thinking " good for you that you are being positive etc, but what about the hurt you have caused me"

Does this make sense, does anyone have any experience with this and how to deal with it?

Me - 37
W - 37
M -5
T - 15

S=5
S=3

Seperated - 12/12
BD - 20/03/13
Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.