Ok, I agree that my H is a narsassistic dbag. But, he was joking. He use to say that stuff to get a rise out of me when we were picking names for S4. I took that more as a way to try & get me to engage in banter with him and annoy me. Plus, the name he said meant manly. I had listed the names with there meanings. I just see that he isn't going to probably ever stop trying to engage me. Barf.

Even tonight when I had the kids call them on speaker he was all "give your mom a big hug from me.". Then trying to ask me how I was, how I'm feeling, how my sister is. I just kept pulling the kids back in, then when D2 kept kidding the phone (so freakin' cute!!!) and hanging up on him, I let him go.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D