PON... I was asking about LL for h, because I have been reading how others had done it, so thought I misses 1/2 the test. Would like to be sure of his LL, and not assume...thats all.
As for the signature... I leave it like that as a reminder of the fool I was on that date. It was me pushing him into "agreeing"... and he did, but didn't back it up. However, when I did the same thing on April 2... he has been nice ever since, and I have noticed some baby steps... so, I am keeping it like that, until I can change it to something better. MY reminder of a backslide.
As for treating my h as a peer, that is a difficult task. As I want more & fear that having only a business rel'p with him will only be just that... business. But, I guess if that is all he wants, there's nothing I can do about that.
Ok.. i will stop analyzing texts/text time, etc... all of it!
I have "thought" and even enquired about yoga... its not really my thing, but am open to it. My D is finished school in a few more days, she has a pass, so I may take it up with her...just to do anything different.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
