Recently Separated and Need Help

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I didn't want it to come off like a contest(I don't think). I was thinking more along the lines of I felt like I was falling apart, but at least I looked like I had it together. I've been trying to exercise at work during my lunch breaks. I've dropped 2 dress sizes in 3 weeks. I know, I know. Not necessarily the healthiest way to lose.

I'm trying to GAL. However, I'm not sure if that is the best idea. I've always had my own things going on, my H was the one that stayed home with the kids. I'm wondering if this won't be counterproductive to working towards bringing him home. Any thoughts?