Those are my LLs. No you can't do test for him. Are you listening to yourself? You post your LL and immediately follow with how can I tell my husbands can I take it for him. Honestly re-read that and see how silly it sounds.

You should be able to identify your spouses love language. I knew my wife's were acts of service and quality time.

Often you try to speak your love language to your spouse. So in your case. Physical touch and affirmation. (Hugs & compliments ) but.... his LL is acts of service so that don't work.

Anyways it's just a tool to understand yourself better.

My wife has trouble with words of affirmation . It's hard for me. I do tons of acts of service and all I want is a thank you or a hug. I hardly get it but when I do it makes me goofy . But overtime she will do acts of service for me and I just take that as her way of saying I love you.

This is something you share with a spouse when you move into piecing . My wife took quiz but we were piecing . I took quiz 8 months before her and I listened to the book 3 times on iTunes . These are things you can start to do to focus on yourself . Stop asking about H