Uh, I'm not trying to be a smart ass (well, I probably am but...). I just know in my own life it helps me to recognize that life is what it is. I have no more right to expect fairness than anyone else. I just have to play the cards I'm dealt and be grateful that I have any to play at all! Anyway, I do disagree with much of what you wrote. Sorry, but telling others your pain whether a physical or emotional issue does not make you a "wimp". It makes you someone who is willing to expose your vulnerability to another and give them the blessed opportunity to give to someone who needs it. That's a courageous thing to do, not wimpy. Second, if expressing your feelings one way to another is not getting the results you want then you need to find another way. Don't assume that person doesn't care, they may care but don't express it in the way you want them to. Third, in my experience, when people tell you to do something they DO want you to do it. Explain please. I've forgotten the rest of what I was gonna say but I do hope you feel better...and I DO expect you to do it
