Originally Posted By: Pathfinder2
I am greatly disappointed that my wife would do something like this. It causes me to wonder whether or not she indeed can be trusted. She has repeatedly covered things up from me ever since I asked her to stop spending time alone with one of her male friends. Once I did that, she went underground.

It takes a long time to build trust, and just one act to destroy it. Not feeling too good about our prospects today.


PA, I think yours and my situation are still young by some of the standards I see on this board. This is a small step backwards. Keep up the DB-ing, looking for those small positive improvements. I get down too with some of the sh!t my W does, but then I take the big picture and say to myself in the past 3 months there has been great improvement. If the next 3 months leads to continuing improvement we might be somewhere. According to your signature tag, this started in 10/2012, you were in different rooms and now the same room again. Thats a big step.


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