Well, he has also written another book called 'My Wife Does not love me anymore' which was the first book i read, and this was what stopped helped me making too many mistakes early on. I would say its more like DR than ILYBINILWY, which is more counselling based. Its targeted at men, but he claims is also good for wives too. I own a couple more of his books but not had time to read them yet.
I have read the 5LL, and this was fantastic. Really opened up my eyes to how I had been getting things wrong. I am half way through this again, but think DR is calling so I can get my focus and direction back.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.