Hey all - Middle of the fifth month since H moved out - daily contact and frequent visits - still some problems with fighting - two steps forward big jump back, but he still says he doesn't want the big D, wants to come home, but is afraid we'll just fight.
Family and friends are telling me "it's time to give up- it's been five months and you need to accept that if he isn't ready to move in now, he never will be."
THAT IS SO DISCOURAGING!!!! And it makes me feel angry at H because he isn't home. It blows my patience, and my hope, and all that. Am I just hoping for something that will never happen? Am I pathetic?
AUGH! Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
