Busting, I really wish I could meet you too. You are so, so far, though! And it's not like we can keep in touch after we've left this board bc we're not allowed to exchange info :-( But I will always remember you and the impact you had in my life.
BF, the D process can be really tough bc everyone wants to weigh in and no one really has a clue. So the WAS becomes even more confused. I wish my H had hired a L and we had a collaborative D. If you go through it (have to catch up on your sitch) try to go that route. I don't hold myself anymore when I want to set things straight. I say things with kindness and respect, though.
