Reb...I have also been on pins and needles wondering if and when the D papers might come...it is driving me nuts!!
I was thinking I need to really look at what would happen if they did come, what will my reaction be, how will I handle it, what would change if I did receive them...
Plan on discussing in IC, also discussing how I would react if H was with someone else...
Maybe if we confront the unknowns it might help us? would our process change if papers were exchanged? I know it would be shocking, and I need to prepare myself to shut my mouth when they do arrive and look at how I would have handled the sitch before, the old me, and how I want to handle it as the new me!!
Also my sense is to just let it go...and show the person you want to be this weekend...his vib might have had to do with something at work and nothing to do with the sitch that night, you, him the girls or his cell...
