First Post--2d troubled marriage

[2X Divorcee?]

Well, maybe I posted something years ago when my first marriage fell apart. But here I am again. Suprised but trying to DB....went straight back to MWD and got a fresh copy of DR..been in touch with a DB Coach as well as a face to face C. Been lurking here too but want to jump in and get some comments on a couple of things.

So, here's my sit...

started dating when we lived close to each other back in 2010. We had a wonderful start and great times. After I met her two girls and when my D visited, I thought we made up a FAB 5 that really clicked. We traveled together some alone and some with the girls. I proposed to her at Thanksgiving 2011. We are both in the military and she had plans to deploy. She said yes but had to leave within a week or two. We planned the wedding over skype and telephone. But the surprise that rocked us was that I got picked for another asignment while she was gone...8000 miles away. It was a hard pill to swallow but we agreed to give it a try and I promised to make it home from this far away location at least once a quarter. Also, I couldn't delay my departure. I was gone a month before her 6 month deployment ended. I returned home for the August wedding (which was awesome)...and then again 3 more times counting Christmas. As soon as I returned from Christmas, I could tell something was wrong over the phone. No more ILU and the calls got real short...she'd end them with some excuse. By the end of January I confronted her and pretty quickly got the BD.

More about the BD and my DBing in the next post.