WAS leaves, LBS cries, LBS becomes happy again and inevitably WAS realizes what they had.
It is annoying as hell that they often wait until the LBS has moved on, because then it leaves the LBS with a very difficult decision, whether to expose themselves to that potential hurt all over again or not.
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Now I am at a crossroads, I have my D papers signed ready to go. I know that she is feeling guilty about her decision and her ego is trying to place the blame on me. I could never R with her until she swallows her pride and admits she just plain gave up when the going got tough.
Is now the time to discuss this with her???
Is your IC an MC as well? Is so, then maybe give that a try. If your W is interested in trying, check into Retrouvaille as well. I can't tell from what you said whether she's interested in trying or just expressing confusion (boy have I never been there with my W).
Originally Posted By: Just A Guy
I have moved on and begun an awesome trip of self realization... I AM AWESOME!! And I deserve to be treated with dignity and respect and LOTS OF LOVE!!
LOL! That's fantastic, glad to hear you're doing so well
