I think you do just fine. I also read the posts you wrote in newcomers, and want to say something... hoping it will help.
The folks you were addressing are tough ones, and not exactly in a place to start the work on themselves that is absolutely necessary to be happy in this mess.
I think you did a fine job up there, if it means anything. So keep on trying, because you're a great guy.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."