Soooooo, Back again for Advice!!!

[Just A Guy]

Yeah so, some of you might no me from last last year..

W had an EA with OM and ended up leaving me to explore her options... It was a long dragged our transition in which she said many things but in my no clear opinion she never intended for our marriage to work once OM came into the scene...

Fast Forward to the past few months.. I live in a great house with my brothers. Been out meeting new people, going to an incredible IC, went on a date, had an incredible woman show interest in me, started exploring that.

Last Week W had mutual friend serve me D papers... She called me and started balling. Says she is confused, for the first time since this started she missed me, bla bla bla... Anyhow I know this is typical of most sitchs based off of what I see here..

WAS leaves, LBS cries, LBS becomes happy again and inevitably WAS realizes what they had.

This is what has happened to a T to me... She is jealous of me and the attention I am getting from women, she is mad that I am changing myself for the better and happy without her etc...

This past weekend she called me and told me she was "Mad at me that it took her leaving for me to change myself". I told her I was sorry she felt like that and I can understand her frustrations.

Now I am at a crossroads, I have my D papers signed ready to go. I know that she is feeling guilty about her decision and her ego is trying to place the blame on me. I could never R with her until she swallows her pride and admits she just plain gave up when the going got tough.

Is now the time to discuss this with her???