Val you made me cry as well! What a beautifully emotional and soulful conversation you had with ex. I can only repeat what others have already said about your compassion and beauty that shone through.
I like that your focus on continuing to create a safe environment for yourself and that you will not change that. I think that is such a great outcome of this all. You know how to take care of yourself.
Sounds like you should always surround yourself with your loved ones. Who can beat a birthday or Christmas morning????
((((((Val)))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home