Did something stupid last night... I incidentally found a book in my wife's car while I was fetching a box to mail off... Next to the box I found a book about writing in secret codes... Given my suspicions of an affair I was very upset and I asked her about it. She was in bed when I asked her. (We've been in separate bedrooms for weeks now.). She flipped out, saying it was a book she picked up at her office in a free book box along with a handful of others-- a totally plausible explanation. She freaked out on me saying I was paranoid, that I wouldn't give her any space, that I was delusional and looking to find any reason for the separation aside from my own issues. She told me that I have to leave the house, I can't stay at home tonight and if I come home she will take our daughter and go stay elsewhere. I am for. Because I definitely don't want my daughter sleeping in a stranger's house but I also feel like I shouldn't leave the house. Any advice?
ME 30. Wife 31. Married 4 years. Together 10. One child, 17months old. Bomb Dropped 3/25/13 Wife wants a divorce. I had no idea.
