This morning was hectic. My H started the day by sending me an email he had drafted for the L asking him to return all the money I had paid him and threatening to sue and to place a complaint with the BB Bureau. He wanted me to sign the letter, and I refused. I said I wasn't happy w the L's delays, but I wasn't going to engage in those threats. I remembered the dark side of my H: he tends to want revenge. He is taken over by anger and does not rest until he gets back at the other person.
I also told him why I thought his claims were not accurate (among them, his statement that the L taken 3 months to get back to me in January of 2012.) His reply showed me he has a completely different perception of what happened last year. To him, he moved out with the idea to get a D. To me, he moved out so we could decide what to do. You guys know his behavior starting in June, but before then (Jan-March) he was visiting/calling every day, super cake eating, saying he loved me and missed me, and that he was pretty sure he would move back in, etc. So all that stuff is erased from his mind.
I replied with my perceived truth (which unless I am crazy, it's pure facts.) Probably not a good idea considering how angry he was. He stopped emailing after that, which is good. Maybe.
We finally got the agreement from the L. Now he needs to review it. I hope things go smoothly in regard to that.
