Please, I need some feedback. I don’t feel well this morning. I cannot force myself to do anything. Something tells me that I should lay low and let my H to do all the moves about the D. But, at the same time I don’t want to give him an impression that I’m trying to delay it, which would mean to him that I’m still hoping to salvage the relationship.
He told me that he was feeling a lot of guilt about our situation, and this is what creates so much stress for him. I know that when he is stressed, he withdraws. I also understand that while he is under this much stress, there is no chance that at least some feelings for me will ever return. So, what do I do? Do I let him have what he wants, a D? It looks like his decision about D has not changed and even became stronger. Does he think that D will set him free?
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
