Sandi2... I love how you put this "I go around the mountain to get to my point, so bear with me"... I am like that too!

Tx for answering me. It would be GREAT to hear a WAH perspective, I wonder if it would be the same as yours (a woman). Regardless, I appreciate you taking the time to respond to everyone on this board. It does give some insight as to where you were during your time. From the time you started baby steps of being nice to your h again, how long till you were ready to start piecing? Tx... feel free to drop a line/mountain in my thread. Tx so much! wfm

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)