Thanks guys for the reply. It is very hard to detach when living together. I know I am nowhere near where I need to be.
W finally got her new job today. As anyone who has been following my sitch knows, the lack of money was the #1 reason that W hadn't left yet. That is all about to change. She will definitely have the means to leave now.
I am really happy for her. She was miserable at work. I wished she would/could have left a couple of years ago.
This is potentially the beginning of the end for us. Initially I mentioned that I thought her job was a big part of our problem. She disagreed. It would be a tough pill to swallow for her to have to admit that I was right. I don't see that happening so it looks like she is on her way out.
Terrible mixed emotions. Very happy that she finally got a new job and no matter what happens she will be in a much happier place BUT kind of feeling down that this is the main step she was waiting for before leaving.
Maybe her getting a new job will help her emotionally and allow her to focus more on working herself. S imo is not always a step closer to the end. Keep DBing and keep the road home smooth and paved. "IF" you S it may be a positive! Don't give up hope!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
