My question is how in the he!! Do I act "normal" while also giving her space? My question is, how to act "normal" but still give space? Did I bust the DBing?
Grizz, I think any of us who are living together must struggle with this issue. Especially if the WAS is still communicating and being more or less civil. Maybe you should be a little more mysterious and act "as-if". So this time you met them at the mall for dinner. Next time, say you have plans and do something else. It'll have her thinking and show that you're getting on with your life with or without her.