Losing Hope

[Tryin2figuritout]

Shiss - I can't stress enough what everyone else is saying about GAL and work on yourself. Don't worry at all about your husband as it only brings back your desire to control the situation and that is not good for you nor your chances at a reconciliation. Why? Because without working on yourself and letting your internal improvements speak for themselves you are actually still doing the same thing that your husband wants to run away from now.

I say this because I was surprised out of nowhere with the I love you but, request for separation, request for divorce and was just paranoid and crazy over the potential of losing my family when in actuality I had already lost them. Can things change....sure, but holding onto hope that they may change keeps you in limbo (again, makes you act like you had previously with your husband which pushes him away).

Be the best that you can be for yourself and you alone. TTFTO