Hi PF, seeing about the $550 charge for the cosmetic procedure, you probably don't want to pry too much into what she is doing. Part of giving her space is not prying or asking questions about such things.
BTW, I have an individual credit card that I obtained a few years ago to have the benefit of 40,000 airline miles. My wife never sees this card, and I use this card for any purchases that I don't want her to know about such as the DB coaching.
