WOW.. your wife is super lucky!! My .02, go tell her that she is beautiful and didn't need to spend $550 on whatever she had done. Run your fingers through her hair (she loves that, right?), h3ll, I'd love THAT!. Tell her that you made a mistake and made a purchase that you agreed that you were going to discuss BEFORE. That this is one of the changes you were working on and failed. That you recognize it and are still a work in progress. Ask for forgiveness and ask that she be willing to have the same discussion before she makes a large purchase too. Then say, this is a trust building lesson for both.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
