AS... point taken. Where/how do you think I could have done that? (given a fantastic exchange?)

Also, I debated with myself to post that exchange, but I want to learn from it. I am trying to make this about me!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)