in_it, It doesn't sound like your H is healthy for any of you right now, I hope that changes. I hope you can focus on you and your kids, all three of them! Your in my thoughts!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy