Time to roll up the sleeves

[mrtwopointfour]

Yes, try it, and if it works do more of it. Best is to mirror her. If she comes forward to you be that much forward to her and be the first to detach and end the interaction. If you ask how her day was and she responds, that's good, but don't push for more than that, just be pleasant and ask follow up questions, and then detach and move along to some other activity. keep it light and non-pressuring. If she's pleasant to you, act content, if she's unpleasant, act content, don't let her mood or reaction spark a mood or reaction in you. Be like an anthropologist, who wouldn't take his subject's data personally.

I'm going to give it a go for a few weeks and see how it works out.