You're defending again. You're not listening. Asking him if he's mad is a sign of co-dependency, in your situation.

You need to express your feelings and your needs, unless it's fine with you if he's sarcastic with you?

Looking for maneuvers and comebacks is temporary. They don't solve your underlying communication problems and marital dysfunction.

I don't think you're ready to hear what I am saying. Maybe in six more months, or so, of this back-and-forth between the two of you, you might be more receptive.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing