Time, Space and Proof

[moth76]

W called while typing up my post so it was cut short.

We had some friction because she said she was staying with me but spent he whole night out then was upset with me for moving forward with my day. My failure was in not contacting her with my plans for our S. I was just hurt and didn't reach out to her about it. This is a major, actually The major issue in our communication. We had a talk when she arrived and I apologized and did as I read on another thread which was to lead with hurt. Both hers and mine. We had an open conversation about us hurting each other with our actions even though our intention was different.

I told her she is welcome in my home but not with the same hurtful pattern. I want us both to have healing. We both apologized and then I left. Going to text her later to ask what she feels and wants as far as staying with me with a certain agreement or if she would prefer to stay somewhere else. I am ok with either choice, just so we don't continue a damaging cycle.