just reading around and sawyour list. thanks and i retyped it yet again- to have around.
got to the "don't give up" and wonder when i'll know it's time to do just that.
still plugging away- still trying (1.75 yr of dbing). h more pleasant on a daily basis- he still has ow in his life- and God only knows who else- i have surely (almost across the board) learned not to take the bait and to stay calm in conflict sitch. to walk away-
feels like about 100 years today- feels like giving up- am telling myself i can certainly do it one more day.
i know compared to alot of people my h's actions and lack of communication is bettr than alot- it doesn't really help - does it? comparing. it's just my own quagmire to be stuck in.
oh well- thanks for list- good luck to everyone getting un-stuck. glad today i didn't know there might not be such a thing as true love forever and ever til i was 60- instead of when i was young and idealistic. now, what to do with allll that optimism about people and idealism tht is teetering on the bring of the garbage can? one wonders.
