Things I've recently learned (or actually realized since I've always known at some level)

1)No one likes a wimp. Unless you are bleeding profusely, fainting, or throwing up constantly to the point of exhaustion there is no reason to advise anyone of pain or illness. No one needs to know.

2)When you are told to do what you need to do.....that NEVER means they actually want you to do it.

3)No matter how often you express your feelings to someone, if they aren't returned in some manner you are wasting your time and energy.

4)There are few people in the world who will care about you. YOU need to be the one constant in your own life who will care about you. Don't ever expect anyone else to. If it occurs, it's just a bonus.

5)Make a plan with flexibility built in, that way when it inevitably gets messed up you won't be so stressed about it. You have another direction to head.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!