i hear ya Turtle. We move towards this in our own time and DBing allows us to find a path we are comfortable with. Sometimes after 7 months (!!! only) I want to say "that's it", but then I read BD, jb, 25 etc. and think that these guys were in for the ultramarathon and I want to be at the place they are before I make any decisions.
It gives me hope, not necessarily for my marriage, but for myself in coming to terms with it all and being in a good, good place when and if I move on.
