I understand what you are saying and I am glad that you are making plans to go in May.
However, I wonder if being debt free is going to seem as important if you are divorced...
It is about priorities and making your wife feel like she is a priority to you. You are looking at the long term picture and she is looking at the now. Does that make sense to you at all?
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
